I had never considered pointing with any other part of my body other than my finger.... until I lived in Costa Rica, that is.
Why would one use a finger to point when the hands are so often busy doing more important tasks than gesturing. That is what the lips are for.
When you are cooking and ask a Costa Rican where a certain ingredient is, it is through a pucker of the lips, an eyebrow lift, and a slight head tilt that you will most likely get that information. Make sure to follow the eyes because the lips aren't very specific in giving directions.... which I just realized reflects the way verbal directions are given as well.
Another funny aspect of lip pointing is the phrase "Mr. Fly." When talking about someone to a friend, you might point with your lips at that person and say, "alla está Mr. Fly." (Over there, is Mr. Fly). I don't know why Mr. Fly is said in English or why Mr. Fly can be a man or a woman.... but there you go.
There are so many different gestures in this culture - from "one hand clapping" to "Mr. fly" .... from gestures that signify the urgency of going to the bathroom to how full a party was... the learning never ends. Like I've been saying a lot lately, language and verbal expression goes so much deeper than words.
Very good observations...!
ReplyDeleteVery perceptive! You've become quite a cultural anthropologist! I never even thought of pointing with lips. What does Mr. Fly mean? What is one hand clapping about? In this culture, there is what is the sound of one hand clapping, which is a zen koan.
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